You have the power to change your life. Regardless of your circumstances, if you are miserable, there are changes that you can make that will increase your contentment. In this article, we will address what we consider to be a “normal” level of discontent, however these strategies have the power to increase the happiness of others who are living in a more difficult situation.
By “normal” level of discontent I’m referring to those of us who seem so common. You know, the “I just don’t know how my life turned out this way.” kind of generic misery that is pervasive in American society. It’s an epidemic. For the most part, I think that we’re spoiled. We think that our lives should read like a romance novel or a sitcom and when that is seldom the truth, we decide that we blew it. There may be an element of truth in that, however, we do not, let me repeat, do NOT have to stay that way! It’s up to us to a great degree.
The most powerful mind/mood altering element known to man that is effective on a daily basis, affordable, legal, available in multi platforms, is not addictive and has no negative side effects (for most people, see your physician before beginning any exercise program… 🙂 ) is yep, you guessed it, exercise…activity…movement…working out. “Usually within five minutes of working out, you get a mood enhancement effect.” Couple this feel-good, can-do mindset with a healthy body and there is no limit to your capabilities. Your mental strength increases right along with your physical strength. “Exercise could help to ward off panic attacks…” If you suffer from anxiety, PTS, depression or any other mental/emotional/psychological difficulty, exercise can help that. A leisurely stroll will do you some good and any is better than nothing, however, there is a lot of evidence that strenuous exercise can do more. There are exceptions to this. Use common sense. Do whatever empowers you. We are trying to awaken the beast that lies within, the source of your strength, the part of you that literally fights for your life. Very soon after I began lifting heavy I became dead serious about recreating my entire life. Once you discover that you can do hard things that you never dreamed that you could do, there is no limit to what you will attempt. Mind you, there are those who will not understand what you’re doing. The very nature of “CHANGE” terrifies the tamer soul. When these people with these temperaments see you altering your life to be happy, they will most likely think that you’ve lost your mind. The truth is, you’ve lost THEIR mind. You are finding yours.
When we work out hard our bodies need a day to rest between workouts. I’ve known people who were determined to break this rule and lifted heavy or ran hard every single day…for a while…and then the injury hit. Trust me on this. Regardless of your age, gender or physical condition if you train really hard every single day, something is going to tear up and then, you’ve got to stop the strenuous exercise to heal…and then, in that season, you will get muscle atrophy and lose ground. Don’t you know that it would have been better to just go by the rules to begin with and make slow and steady progress? I have to temper myself here, and I do. I have seen more than one person injure themselves over-training. If you do that, the time when you can’t work out is a dangerous time for depression and weight gain. You can lose it all. Just go by the rules, they exist for a reason.
Once you begin to get strong and feel better across the board there are changes that take place in your mind. There is an area of study that shows strong correlation between exercise and empowerment. It shows that the mastery of the workout and self-determination may trigger a sense of autonomy, or independence. and this, in turn leads to empowerment. Nothing feels as good as empowerment. It means that I am the captain of my fate. I do not have to take potluck. I decide what’s brought to the table and then I decide if I want it.
Once you decide on the type of exercise that you want to do, go as hard as your physician will allow. On your off days, walk. “Exercise is the best restorative exercise.” (David Yochim). No truer words have ever been spoken. I truly love my walks. I walk long and hard but it’s nothing compared to rising from a heavy squat so it’s actually an off day from strenuous activity. Everything works better after those walks. I am invigorated and pumped to challenge life, those things that we might tend to put off. After a good walk, I’m ready to conquer the world. After a hard weight workout, I’m ready to sleep.
Choose the days that you will work out, the hard workout, and do it on those days. David taught me this. He says to make that your job on those days and that is what works best for me. If I start bumping my workout, sooner or later, I’ll miss one. It makes me angry. You wouldn’t like me when I’m angry. ( :-O) Believe me, it’s best to just do it, (thank you Niki.) I’ve found that the earlier in the day that I do it, the stronger I am. I’m bad to wait until late and I know that my workout will be diminished when I do this. Just get it done anyway that you can. I’ve been known to do it in the middle of the night because honestly, anything is better than missing it for me. I constantly set new goals and one of mine now is to get it done sooner in the day. Not only will you be stronger and have a better workout, you probably won’t feel rushed or lethargic. Do what works best for you but after years of working out, these are the things that I have learned.
You may have to miss some pseudo-social activities to commit to your workout but tell me now… Had you rather be sitting in a room full of mostly unhealthy, unhappy “friends acquaintances and frienemies” sipping sugar and eating salt or had you rather feel the wind in your hair, your muscles pumping, sweating and knowing that you are doing exactly what you should be for yourself, challenging the status quo, getting hot and healthy and defying your age, your genetics and all the naysayers that try to tell you to “act your age”…what?… age equals sick and out of shape?…I don’t think so.
After you’ve taken these steps 1-doctor’s permission, 2-type and 3-commitment, repeat…and repeat again. Never stop. Don’t look back. You will never be the same once you discover the power within. ;-*